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Eu Te Amo vs. Gosto de Você: Express Affection in Portuguese

Compare te amo, gosto de você, and te adoro so you can choose a phrase that matches what you mean.

Real Life Portuguese · 7 min read · Updated October 14, 2026

The short answer

Eu te amo means I love you and can express deep love in a romantic or family relationship. Gosto de você means I like you or care about you; in a romantic context, it can communicate affection without using the same direct declaration.

Choose a phrase that matches the relationship

There is no single phrase that fits every relationship or moment. Consider how well you know the person, what you want to communicate, and how direct you feel comfortable being.

Eu te amo.

I love you.

Gosto muito de você.

I like you a lot / I care about you a lot.

Estou gostando de conhecer você.

I’m enjoying getting to know you.

Use te adoro for warm affection

Te adoro can mean I adore you or I’m very fond of you. People may use it with partners, friends, or family, and tone helps listeners understand the relationship. Like English “love,” the phrase does not carry exactly the same intensity in every situation.

If you are unsure, a less ambiguous phrase can describe what you appreciate: gosto de conversar com você (I like talking with you) or adoro seu senso de humor (I love your sense of humor).

Te adoro, amiga.

I adore you, friend.

Adoro passar tempo com você.

I love spending time with you.

Gosto de como você me escuta.

I like the way you listen to me.

Talk about saudade without translating literally

Estou com saudade de você means I miss you. Saudade adds a sense of longing or missing someone, and the phrase can be affectionate without saying eu te amo.

For more examples of dating verbs such as ficar, sair, and namorar, read our Brazilian Portuguese dating guide. Choose a phrase that is sincere rather than selecting one only because it sounds stronger.

Estou com saudade de você.

I miss you.

Senti sua falta ontem.

I missed you yesterday.

Queria te ver de novo.

I’d like to see you again.

Put it into practice

Choose one phrase that honestly matches your feeling. Practice it with a name or situation so you remember the words and the tone together.

Quick practice

Which Portuguese example matches “I like you a lot / I care about you a lot”?

Choose an answer to check yourself.

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